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Healing after divorce: Is counseling right for you?

Divorce is right up there on the list of life altering events, alongside childbirth, marriage and purchasing a first home. Too often, the actual divorce and end of that relationship are only small pieces in the puzzle of putting your life back together. A significant change in financial status, moving to a new home, helping children through the adjustment and the potential loss of your partner's friends and family relationships may become realities in an already trying time.
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Divorce and Denial

For divorcing families, the first step in the grieving process is denial. It may be hard for you to believe this is happening to you and your family. This disbelief can even lead to thoughts of reconciliation. Even if you were the party who filed first, dissolving a marriage is a tough. After all, you did promise to love, honor, and cherish till death do you part. You had faith in these vows and so did your children.
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Communication Between Divorced Parents

If you and your ex-partner have children together then you are aware that the communication between you doesn't end when the relationship does. The children will always be a part of your lives and anything that concerns or affects them will in turn affect both of you. The lines of communication remain open between most divorced parents, at least on some level. Although it is good to keep the lines of communication open regarding the children, it can often present problems for parents that have moved on to new relationships.
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How to help your children survive your divorce

Divorce is one of the most traumatic events anyone can experience. But as difficult as it is for the couple involved, it can be even more upsetting for the children of the marriage. Children are often aware that there are problems in their parents� relationship, but that doesn't necessarily make a divorce easier to accept.
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Keeping the financial cost of divorce down

Along with the many changes that divorce brings to your life comes a change in your financial status- for both parties involved. Many couples will go from a two income family to a single income individual. Other couples will go from a single income family with a stay at home parent to a single income individual and an individual in need of a job.
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Protecting your assets before during and after a divorce

Divorces can be financially crippling to the couple involved depending on their financial resources in the first place. Knowing what to do in the first place and then doing it are two important steps that you can take to protect yourself financially.
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:) Hi Everyone Was married aged 20 in 1988 to an abusive alcoholic .. put up with him hoping he would...
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INTRODUCTION ******************* First and foremost, I would like to thank those of you who are viewing...
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After what I thought were 20 good years of marriage I find myself going through divorce. My husband...
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life seems so cruel at times 1 minute you have all the next everything gone.I knew my wife or should...
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I am divorced after 25 years - mine is a strange story because I very stupidly met men off of a phone...
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I have a gorgeous hot wife for 20 years but was an extremely difficult person to satisfy. She was such...
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Just over 12 months ago I met someone through on-line dating. We chatted for a couple of months and...
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5.4.10 - Haven't updated this year so I thought it was time.Divorced for 6 months now, I really value...
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Was on here some time ago Almost got over him then last year he came back twice, having had a relationship...
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I will like to start by saying I have been in this relationship over a year. I fell in love with her...
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My story, feel like there will never be enough space to type. Been in a "relationship" for over 3 years,...
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Thank you for coming to our community and I hope it helps you as it helped me creating it.
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I was married at a young age. By the time I was 26, I knew my Marriage was not working and that I no...
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I have a birth defect which affects my breathing (Kartagener's Syndrome, q.v.). The older I get...
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I was married at 18yrs just after our 25th wed ann we decided to seperate as i knew he was emailing...
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Healing After Divorce: Is Counseling Right for You?
Divorce is right up there on the list of life altering events, alongside childbirth, marriage and purchasing a first home. Too often, the actual divorce and end of that relationship are only small pieces in the puzzle of putting your life back together. A significant change in financial status, moving to a new home, helping children through the adjustment and the potential loss of your partner's friends and family relationships may become realities in an already trying time.
Protecting your assets before, during, and after a divorce
Divorces can be financially crippling to the couple involved depending on their financial resources in the first place. Knowing what to do in the first place and then doing it are two important steps that you can take to protect yourself financially.
Keeping the financial cost of divorce down
Along with the many changes that divorce brings to your life comes a change in your financial status- for both parties involved. Many couples will go from a two income family to a single income individual. Other couples will go from a single income family with a stay at home parent to a single income individual and an individual in need of a job.

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From Dual-Income to Single-Income: Common Marital Issues When Making The Adjustment
As of the 2004 US Census, there are approximately 5.5 million stay-at-home parents, which shows a 15% increase over the last ten years. With the number of stay-at-home parents climbing, more and more couples are confronting the issues and challenges a relationship faces when one parent forgoes a career to stay at home with the children.
20 Dos & Don'ts of a Functional Relationship
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How to Recover from a Breakup as a Teenager
Whether this is your first relationship or your twenty-seventh, dealing with a break up is hard. No matter what the reason was for the break up, it still hurts. Even though this break up may seem like the end of the world now, there are ways to heal your broken heart.
What Went Wrong? When Relationships Go From Hot To Cold
Everything was great. We had been dating for 6 months. We shared the same interests, felt very at ease together, had (often) discussed future plans and had even spent some of the holidays together. Our relationship seemed right on track and just right in general. Then, without warning, he said he "needs some time to think and figure things out. " He stopped calling and rarely returned my calls. When he did, I was often met with silence on the other end of the line. When I asked "what happened", I just got a verbal run around of excuses about how busy he is and/or how much stress he is under right now. What happened? What did I do? I don't know what to think.

Help and advice on mending a broken heart

The Surest Way to Cure a Broken Heart
This is a truth everybody knows because everybody has been through it and it's embodied in our society folk wisdom... Time heals all wounds. Do you intend to suffer from your broken heart 20 years from now? Of course not. But that doesn't help you now... or does it?
The 6 Stages Of A Broken Heart
At one point or another almost everyone has experienced a broken heart. Whether it happened in 3rd grade or a week before your 80th birthday, most of us can relate to the Celine Dion song "All by Myself" (even though we won't admit it). What's important is to get through this passing phase of your life. "Passing" is a verb I chose because you do get over it.
Moving On After Being Dumped
Being dumped is something, which has happened to everyone at some time in their life. How each person chooses to deal with it depends very much on the individual, but there is one thing you can be sure of and that is that it will be painful whatever your age. Learning the best way of dealing with this situation will help to you to recover as quickly as possible and prepare you for moving on.
Haunted: Burying The Ghosts Of Lost Love
Late at night, as you read quietly, before you fall off to sleep... During a busy afternoon as you run through a crowd, hurrying back to your office or home.... Sitting in a movie theater, a restaurant or waiting for the light to turn... A sudden thought or image rises within you. It can come as a small nagging feeling or as a wave of emotion that threatens to overwhelm and drown you in the grief of a memory. Either way it's clear; here comes his/her ghost again.

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Coping with loneliness
You are not alone as a staggering amount of people suffers from loneliness. Loneliness is a feeling of emptiness and can sometimes result in depression.
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