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About Lisa Steadman

Relationship guest author: Lisa Steadman, a.k.a. The Relationship Journalist™

Lisa Steadman, a.k.a. The Relationship Journalist™ is an accomplished relationship writer, speaker, and coach.

She is the site creator of BreakupChronicles.com featuring stories of how breaking up with the wrong person is the right thing to do (and always leads to bigger and better opportunities in life – including meeting Mr. or Ms. Right!). Her first book ‘It's a Breakup, Not a Breakdown: Get over the Big One and Change Your Life - for Good!’ will be available nationwide in bookstores and online beginning May 8th 2007. Lisa has been featured on The KTLA Morning News, The Tyra Banks Show, Fox Across America, and Playboy radio espousing the positive side to breaking up.

Lisa lives in Southern California where she studies dating and relationships for a living. She is a featured writer on the dating website ItsJustCoffee.com, and writes the bi-weekly column The Ex-Files: Celebrity Breakups with a New Age Agenda on the satire website DeadBrain.com.

Additionally, Lisa contributes relationship-oriented articles to a variety of web and print sources. Some of her recent work includes ‘The Engagement Ring and The Faux Beau: A Single Gal’s Field Trip’, ‘The Bermuda Triangle of Dating: Where Did The Dude Go?’ and ‘Lock & Key: Do You Hold The Keys To My Malibu Dream House’.


Relationship advice & articles by Lisa Steadman

The ABCs of Ex Etiquette
The most common question people ask me is whether or not it’s possible to stay friends with an ex after a breakup while still moving on. And nine times out of ten my answer is always the same—no. Why? Because as hard as it may be to accept, your relationship is over. This person is now your ex. The relationship ended for a reason. It’s now time to EXtract your ex from your life, give yourself time to heal, and create the space to move on...Read this article

After The Breakup: The ABCs of Moving Out and On
Congratulations on your breakup! Nobody ever says that, do they? But they should. Breakups are big. And not just because of the heartache and pain but because of the empowering pleasure that comes from eventually moving on. If you’re not there yet, don’t worry. You’ll get there. One day soon enough you’ll be minding your own business, actively engaged in your new and amazing life and you’ll realize, I’m over it. Doesn’t that sound exciting?...Read this article


Lisa Steadman - It's a Breakup, Not a Breakdown: Get over the Big One and Change Your Life - for Good!

Featured Book:

It's a Breakup, Not a Breakdown: Get over the Big One and Change Your Life - for Good!

Every woman's experienced the Big Breakup. You know the one. And even though it's a devastating natural disaster, after all the mind-numbing, soul-stirring, heart-wrenching pain comes the pleasure: in rediscovering yourself and your amazing life, of relishing in your girlfriends' company, and (eventually) of meeting someone new--someone who would have otherwise gone unmet had you not gone through your breakup in the first place.

Enter Lisa Steadman, author and multiple-breakup survivor, who shows you just how to reinvent your breakup--and your life. No more wallowing, no more "woe is me," no more Sex and the City reruns. With Lisa's help, this celebratory survival guide will help you see your Big Breakup not as a breakdown but as an opportunity to break up with a relationship that's no longer working and move on. With Lisa's Movin' On plan, this breakup promises to be the first day of the rest of your relationship life!

You can purchase the book It's a Breakup, Not a Breakdown: Get over the Big One and Change Your Life - for Good!, here.


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Help and advice on divorce

Divorce and Denial
For divorcing families, the first step in the grieving process is denial. It may be hard for you to believe this is happening to you and your family. This disbelief can even lead to thoughts of reconciliation. Even if you were the party who filed first, dissolving a marriage is a tough. After all, you did promise to love, honor, and cherish till death do you part.
Communication Between Divorced Parents
If you and your ex-partner have children together then you are aware that the communication between you doesn't end when the relationship does. The children will always be a part of your lives and anything that concerns or affects them will in turn affect both of you. The lines of communication remain open between most divorced parents, at least on some level.
Protecting your assets before, during, and after a divorce
Divorces can be financially crippling to the couple involved depending on their financial resources in the first place. Knowing what to do in the first place and then doing it are two important steps that you can take to protect yourself financially.
Keeping the financial cost of divorce down
Along with the many changes that divorce brings to your life comes a change in your financial status- for both parties involved. Many couples will go from a two income family to a single income individual. Other couples will go from a single income family with a stay at home parent to a single income individual and an individual in need of a job.

Relationship help and advice

20 Dos & Don'ts of a Functional Relationship
1. Who you think you are is important. Like attracts like. Think about it. Do you like who you are?...
How to Recover from a Breakup as a Teenager
Whether this is your first relationship or your twenty-seventh, dealing with a break up is hard. No matter what the reason was for the break up, it still hurts. Even though this break up may seem like the end of the world now, there are ways to heal your broken heart.
What Went Wrong? When Relationships Go From Hot To Cold
Everything was great. We had been dating for 6 months. We shared the same interests, felt very at ease together, had (often) discussed future plans and had even spent some of the holidays together. Our relationship seemed right on track and just right in general. Then, without warning, he said he "needs some time to think and figure things out. " He stopped calling and rarely returned my calls. When he did, I was often met with silence on the other end of the line. When I asked "what happened", I just got a verbal run around of excuses about how busy he is and/or how much stress he is under right now. What happened? What did I do? I don't know what to think.
Hooking Up vs. Lasting Love: It's Your Choice
These terms have become all too familiar in today's dating world. Are they words that you can relate to Have you lived them in some way? If so, how have you felt about the experience(s) both during and after?

Help and advice on mending a broken heart

The Surest Way to Cure a Broken Heart
This is a truth everybody knows because everybody has been through it and it's embodied in our society folk wisdom... Time heals all wounds. Do you intend to suffer from your broken heart 20 years from now? Of course not. But that doesn't help you now... or does it?
The 6 Stages Of A Broken Heart
At one point or another almost everyone has experienced a broken heart. Whether it happened in 3rd grade or a week before your 80th birthday, most of us can relate to the Celine Dion song "All by Myself" (even though we won't admit it). What's important is to get through this passing phase of your life. "Passing" is a verb I chose because you do get over it.
Moving On After Being Dumped
Being dumped is something, which has happened to everyone at some time in their life. How each person chooses to deal with it depends very much on the individual, but there is one thing you can be sure of and that is that it will be painful whatever your age. Learning the best way of dealing with this situation will help to you to recover as quickly as possible and prepare you for moving on.
Haunted: Burying The Ghosts Of Lost Love
Late at night, as you read quietly, before you fall off to sleep... During a busy afternoon as you run through a crowd, hurrying back to your office or home.... Sitting in a movie theater, a restaurant or waiting for the light to turn... A sudden thought or image rises within you. It can come as a small nagging feeling or as a wave of emotion that threatens to overwhelm and drown you in the grief of a memory. Either way it's clear; here comes his/her ghost again.

Help and advice on coping with loneliness

Coping with loneliness
You are not alone as a staggering amount of people suffers from loneliness. Loneliness is a feeling of emptiness and can sometimes result in depression.
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