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These are the Terms and conditions ('the Terms') of www.been-dumped.com. Please read these Terms carefully as they contain important information about your rights and obligations: This website is operated by Connect Together Limited Company No 04896355 of 309 High Road Benfleet SS7 5HA United Kingdom, ('we', 'our, 'ours', 'us').

1. Use of Website on these Conditions
All use of www.been-dumped.com ('our Website', 'the Website') and taking of chargeable services from us is on the Terms and conditions below.

If you do not agree to these Terms and conditions then you must immediately cease use of our Website.

You may print and keep a copy of these Terms. They are a legal agreement between us and can only be modified with our consent. We reserve the right to change the Terms at our discretion by changing them on the Website.

2. Accuracy of Information and Disclaimer
We do our best to ensure all information on the Website is accurate.

If you find any inaccurate information on the Website let us know and we will correct it, where we agree, as soon as practicable.

You should ensure information you send to us is accurate and does not breach anyone else's rights such as copyright or is libellous, obscene, menacing, threatening, offensive, abusive, fraudulent, criminal or infringes the rights of other people or in is in any way illegal. Remember that the Website can be viewed around the world and the information you send to us will be published on the Website.

You should independently verify any information before relying upon it.

We make no representations that information is accurate and up to date or complete and accept no liability for any loss or damage caused by inaccurate information..

Although we hope this Website will be of interest to users, we accept no liability and offer no warranties in relation to it and its content, to the fullest extent such liability can be excluded by law.

Any views expressed in messages on the Website are not necessarily ours or anyone connected with us.

3. Copyright and Postings on the Website
You must make sure you own all the intellectual property rights, including copyright and database right, in postings / message which you send to us to publish on the Website ('Postings'). If in doubt provide a link, not a copy. Make sure there is no legal obligation, contract or other restriction which would prevent your making the Postings.

Anonymous Postings are not accepted.

You should retain copies of all Postings and other postings and information you send to us electronically, through the Website or otherwise.

You waive your moral rights to be identified as author of the Posting and let us modify the Posting. It may, for example, be necessary to shorten Postings or cut them to fit the Website.

If there are any restrictions as to the use to which we can put the Postings we must be told in advance and we may have to reject it. We reserve the right to reject any Postings at our discretion.

All Postings received will be assumed to be for publication on the Website and any further use of them shall be out our sole discretion and you grant us an exclusive, royalty free licence for a period in perpetuity to us for the same..

The Website contains copyright material, trade names and other proprietary information, including, but not limited to, text, software, photos, graphics and may in future include video, graphics, music and sound. The entire contents of the Website are protected by copyright law. We, and / or our licensors, own copyright and / or database right in the selection, coordination, arrangement and enhancement of such content, as well as in the content original to it. You may not modify, publish, transmit, participate in the transfer or sale, create derivative works, or in any way exploit, any of the content, in whole or in part except as provided in these Terms. See the Intellectual Property Notice on our Website.

You may download information from the Website for your own personal use only. Except as otherwise expressly permitted under copyright law, no copying, redistribution, retransmission, publication or commercial exploitation of downloaded material will be permitted without our express written permission and that of the copyright owner. In the event of any permitted copying, redistribution or publication of copyright material, no changes in or deletion of author attribution, trade mark legend or copyright notice shall be made. You acknowledge that you do not acquire any ownership rights by downloading copyright material.

Connect Together™ and Been Dumped™ and the logos on this Website are our trade names. You may not use those names without our consent.

We provide hypertext links to other sites are operated by other people. Using such a link means you are leaving our Website and we take no responsibility for, and give no warranties, guarantees or representations in respect of linked sites.

4. Bulletin Boards
We encourage users of the Website to contribute to our bulletin boards. You must follow our Online Conduct Rules and use is only authorised on that basis.

We expect many of those contributing to our message boards to have strong views about the matters discussed, but the Website is subject to the laws of libel and you and us could be sued if you are not careful in what you say. You should not make libellous postings or any postings which are illegal or breach copyright, database or other related rights. It is your responsibility to check this out and we do not accept any liability in this respect.

If you see any information there which breaches your or anyone else's rights or may be illegal, defamatory or otherwise should be removed, let us know immediately and, where we agree, we shall do our best to remove it as soon as possible.

You must indemnify (pay) us for any losses we suffer if you breach this provision or any other provision of these Terms or the Online Conduct Rules of Posting.

Although we listen to users' suggestions for new message boards, we cannot guarantee to include every topic everyone requests.

We reserve the right to remove postings to message boards or edit them at our discretion, but have no obligation to do so.

Subscribers must ensure only they use those message boards and they do not allow non-subscribers to use them using a subscriber's own login/ password.

Subscribers must keep their passwords confidential.

5. Our Liability
We provide most of the information on this Website free of any access charge. Whether not you are charged for the information provided on the Website, the information is provided on the basis of 'no liability'. Where we provide a chargeable service to you we accept liability for direct loss arising from our not having used reasonable skill and care in the provision of such services, the limit to our liability here, to the extent permitted by law, shall be limited to the price you have paid to us in any year, in the year of claim.

In no event shall we be liable to you for, in the case of non-chargeable services any direct, and for both chargeable and non-chargeable services any indirect or consequential loss, loss of profit, revenue or good will arising from your use of the Website or information on the Website. Subject as provided below, all Terms implied by law are excluded.

We accept liability for death or personal injury caused by negligence or responsibility for fraudulent misrepresentation that cannot, under English law, be excluded.

We are a distributor (and not a publisher) of content supplied by third parties and users of the Website. Any opinions, advice, statements, services, offers, or other information or content expressed or made available by third parties, including information providers, or users, are those of the authors or distributors and not of us. We do not necessarily endorse nor are we responsible for the accuracy or reliability of any opinion, advice or statement made on the Website.

The information on the Website is not intended to address your particular requirements. Such information does not constitute any form of advice or recommendation by us and is not intended to be relied upon by you in making (or refraining from making) any decision, or other, decisions. You should take your own advice.

If you make an arrangement with anyone named or connected with the Website this is at your sole risk.

6. Barring from the Website
We reserve the right to bar users from the Website, on a permanent or temporary basis at our discretion. Any such user shall be notified and must not then attempt to use the Website under any other name or through any other user.

7. Chargeable Services
When you click to signify you wish to take out a chargeable service with us, you enter into a contract with us to take such services.

All chargeable services are clearly marked as chargeable on the site and the price is shown. You can pay for the same, in advance by credit card.

You may only use your own card and not someone else and you may only order for yourself for your own private investment purposes.

You must be 18 years (or older if the age of majority is older in your country).

We reserve the right to reject any order at our discretion without giving any reason to you.

Our liability for our services ordered by you is set out in paragraph 5 and otherwise in these Terms.

You may terminate a chargeable service on [Insert appropriate period] at any time.

Where you purchase goods or services having been directed from the Website through a link to a third party, any contract you may choose to form with them, or use of their website is a matter between you and them. We do not accept any liability for the quality or type of services or goods provided by those whom we mention on our Website or to whom we have linked our Website. It is for you to make your own judgment about the quality of such providers. We exclude all liability both under contract and under the law of tort including without limitation liability for misrepresentation to the fullest extent permitted by law in this respect.

8. Legal Jurisdiction and Dispute Resolution
English law shall apply to these Terms, notwithstanding the jurisdiction where you are based. You irrevocably agree that the courts of England shall have exclusive jurisdiction to settle any dispute which may arise out of, under, or in connection with these Terms and for those purposes irrevocably submit all disputes to the jurisdiction of the English courts. The place of performance shall be England.

We make no warranty or guarantee that the Website or information available from it complies with laws other than those of England.

9. General
Any formal legal notices should be sent to us at the address at the end of these Terms by e-mail confirmed by post.

Failure by us to enforce a right does not result in waiver of such right.

You may not assign or transfer your rights under this agreement.

We may amend these Terms at any time by posting a variation on the Website.

10. Further Information
Further information on these conditions or any queries on them can be obtained from:

The Legal Officer, Connect Together Limited, of 309 High Road, Benfleet, Essex SS7 5HA
e-mail legal@connecttogether.com

Version 17 December 2003
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